You are so obsessed with him or her that you can’t do do the right math, so you keep devaluing yourself while building up their ego. The trade is not fair at all. You keep feeding them and they know, unconsciously though, that you will wait for them and thus they can keep you at whatever distance they feel comfortable with.
I am looking forward to ask ONSE SINGLE question to as many people as possible. Why? Psychology researchers spend much of their time in offices, doing experiments and writing about the human mind and behaviour, conjuring theories which often fail to mirror reality. Hence, I want to ask people. I want to hear them.